As a Missionary in the Philippines I've learned many things:
-You cant be a germaphobe..
-Roommates are not just people...
-"Black outs" are called "brown outs" and are as frequent as meal times...
-Mealtime means game time-the game being, "How do I eat this?"
-The road is a multi-purpose place for driving, sleeping, playing, double parking, selling, drying food, walking your Carabao....
-Internet time is a precious gift...
-Need to send a text? No problem, just stick your arm out the window and hope you reach signal...
-Most food goes in the fridge or the ants will find it..except the food prepared for the day, it sets out all day... Talk about "bless the food"
-Locals carry umbrellas to keep them dry, to prevent getting tanning and to keep away the dangerous dogs...
-Nap time is for adults too..Siesta!
This is just a little bit of what I'm learning:) hope you get a better picture how I live now.. And can laugh along as you picture me in each situation!!
I think I'm going to try to post more stories regularly, as Internet permits.
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Things to get use to...
Pics at the bottom...:)
I was finally here. There was lots of excitement running through my veins. It was almost a year ago since I was last here. Monica gave me a quick tour again, refreshing my memory of where things were. My office is located next to the baby room and across from the Pharmacy/Nurse's office. I began pulling things out to set up my office. I put many things up for the kids to feel welcome in my office. Things like posters and signs saying "You are somebody's reason to smile." I put up a couple of pictures of my family. When the kids came to visit they loved to look at all the things I had like these counting blocks. Of course now they are used for shooting practice and block wars. Don't worry, they are foam blocks. It is hilarious to see so many play the block war in such a tiny space! The laughter bounces throughout the room just as much as the blocks.
I've noticed one of the words I journal the most is adjusting. I realize this is a long process but the first couple of days where packed full of it. Let me list some things I had to adjust to:
-Toilet paper goes in the trash can, not the toilet.
-Finding the best time to take a shower- if there are a lot of people taking showers the water pressure was low and sometimes wouldn't even come out. ( now this has been fixed.. PTL)
-Figuring out how to eat the food. Lots of fish- served whole- pick out the bones and don't mind the lil guy looking at you with a smirk on his face.
-Plastic chairs (similar to lawn chairs) as furniture. This makes the body ache a bit. I learned to keep a pillow in my office, for support.
- The traffic- small roads, not many rules, and everything in the world seems to have a reason to be in the road. Like- trucks, jeepneys, cars, tricycles (motorcycle with side car-like a taxi), people, kids, animals of all kind, food drying (rice)....
- hot and sweaty most of the time because of the weather
-many critters as roommates
These are just some of the fun things I wanted to share with you. I will share more of my new experiences later.
Another thing I had to get use to was the attention. As I even write it I feel prideful. Let me explain my humbling experience. First off the staff at King's Garden knows how to do hospitality. They make you feel extremely welcome. I would have to say that I am use to getting things myself. If I need it I would make it happen. If someone else needed it, I would get it. Well here it's quite opposite. At lunch my plate and silverware would already be set out for me. If I needed something, someone would get it. The longer I have been here the more I can do for myself. But before they would just do it for me, instead of tell me how to do it. At first during lunch the staff would be very quiet. One day I was leaving the dining room and someone joked that they could eat now. I was curious as to why she said that. She said I made some of them nervous. Not in a bad way. I guess since I was new. The funny thing is I felt just as nervous! Other attention I received is curious stares. I'm pretty quiet and shy. When I enter a room I would rather not every notice I walked in. Here it's quite opposite. Being American I can't really hide my larger white figure. It's bound to be obvious that I came in. :) The kids really liked to study my features. I was told not to be offended by any English I hear. Things come out pretty blunt. This isn't out of rudeness but accepting how things are I would say. This can be hard on ones self esteem but eventually you just accept who you are. The kids like to pull on the hairs on my arm...I have more and it's a different color. Things like that.
Now that I have given you a basis of my life here more stories will come!
Thank you all for your support!
Ames:)
Thursday, October 4, 2012
It's been a month already??
Hello friends and family!
I'm sure you are anxious to read my first blog since I've moved to the Philippines. Well, I'm excited to write it...I keep going back and forth on what to write about and how to write it. So I hope it come out right and you can have a picture of my life here.
I was waiting to board my final flight- the one bound to the Philippines. Ive never had a panic attack before but i believe there was something stirring in these final moments. I was holding back the sobs. I don't think of myself at all as an emotional person. I was texting people to pray for me. I had to call my brother to pray for me. Even though I could barely speak on the phone. This was the real deal. I was about to board the long flight and I wouldn't be returning on another plane in a couple of weeks. After many prayers and scriptures I made it aboard. I have mentioned to friends and family before that I don't sleep well on planes. It's just too uncomfortable for me. Well wouldn't you know it that I was next to an aisle and had one person 3 seats away. I had lots of room. I slept most of the time. I watched Avengers, ate and read my Bible. My flight was 16hours! That's God. When I arrived in the Philippines everything began to set in. Before I came to the Children's Home I had a two day orientation at the missions field office (AGMF). One thing I was told was I was being put in the deep end and I have to learn how to swim. This was no joke. I found the reality of the mission field being my home a bit overwhelming. I'm not sure exactly why. There were so many things to remember, new people, new culture, new ministry role and no family, friends or pastors to run to for prayers and hugs in rough moments or even just for some laughs. I am so thankful for the support of my church. First Assembly Of God. Not because my church is better than yours. Not because the title. It's because the people there really love Jesus. And the Pastors and staff care about true discipleship. I knew the importance of meeting with the Lord an hour a day to refill my tank. So that's what I did. I had my Jesus time alone and then I was Game. My whole mentality shifted. Not that I wasn't praying before. There is just something about going into your room, shutting the door and setting before the Lord with Bible in hand, journal and worship music. I was ready to hit the field.



Monica and I were driving home(King's Garden Children's Home) and there was a little disappointment. The kids had school even though it was a Saturday. They had to make up for the bad weather days. When I arrived there were staff and some kids to greet me. Along with a banner and a card from the kids. I felt more at peace. When the kids finally came home the excitement level upgraded. Now I had to learn names...and quick. They only had me to remember. Names are important. I wanted to learn who these kids are as quick as I could. I felt very loved and welcomed. The first thing i unpacked was pictures. I hung pictures in my room of my family and friends. I knew it would be what would encourage me and put a smile on my face when I needed it.


These are some of my emotions of first arriving. I will blog more later. I just wanted to give you part of what I went through. Thinking through it all is time consuming. I don't want to give just brief moments. I want to really paint the picture.

So more to come!!!!
Also I will NOT be setting my blog to private. If I did you would need to log in every time. So not pics of the kiddos will be on here. If you would like to see pics of the kids please email me at Ameshaynes@yahoo.com
Thanks!
Amy

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I'm sure you are anxious to read my first blog since I've moved to the Philippines. Well, I'm excited to write it...I keep going back and forth on what to write about and how to write it. So I hope it come out right and you can have a picture of my life here.
I was waiting to board my final flight- the one bound to the Philippines. Ive never had a panic attack before but i believe there was something stirring in these final moments. I was holding back the sobs. I don't think of myself at all as an emotional person. I was texting people to pray for me. I had to call my brother to pray for me. Even though I could barely speak on the phone. This was the real deal. I was about to board the long flight and I wouldn't be returning on another plane in a couple of weeks. After many prayers and scriptures I made it aboard. I have mentioned to friends and family before that I don't sleep well on planes. It's just too uncomfortable for me. Well wouldn't you know it that I was next to an aisle and had one person 3 seats away. I had lots of room. I slept most of the time. I watched Avengers, ate and read my Bible. My flight was 16hours! That's God. When I arrived in the Philippines everything began to set in. Before I came to the Children's Home I had a two day orientation at the missions field office (AGMF). One thing I was told was I was being put in the deep end and I have to learn how to swim. This was no joke. I found the reality of the mission field being my home a bit overwhelming. I'm not sure exactly why. There were so many things to remember, new people, new culture, new ministry role and no family, friends or pastors to run to for prayers and hugs in rough moments or even just for some laughs. I am so thankful for the support of my church. First Assembly Of God. Not because my church is better than yours. Not because the title. It's because the people there really love Jesus. And the Pastors and staff care about true discipleship. I knew the importance of meeting with the Lord an hour a day to refill my tank. So that's what I did. I had my Jesus time alone and then I was Game. My whole mentality shifted. Not that I wasn't praying before. There is just something about going into your room, shutting the door and setting before the Lord with Bible in hand, journal and worship music. I was ready to hit the field.



Monica and I were driving home(King's Garden Children's Home) and there was a little disappointment. The kids had school even though it was a Saturday. They had to make up for the bad weather days. When I arrived there were staff and some kids to greet me. Along with a banner and a card from the kids. I felt more at peace. When the kids finally came home the excitement level upgraded. Now I had to learn names...and quick. They only had me to remember. Names are important. I wanted to learn who these kids are as quick as I could. I felt very loved and welcomed. The first thing i unpacked was pictures. I hung pictures in my room of my family and friends. I knew it would be what would encourage me and put a smile on my face when I needed it.


These are some of my emotions of first arriving. I will blog more later. I just wanted to give you part of what I went through. Thinking through it all is time consuming. I don't want to give just brief moments. I want to really paint the picture.

So more to come!!!!
Also I will NOT be setting my blog to private. If I did you would need to log in every time. So not pics of the kiddos will be on here. If you would like to see pics of the kids please email me at Ameshaynes@yahoo.com
Thanks!
Amy

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Posted using BlogPress from my iPad
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